Blog 14: Who Owns The Media

Even before reading Reingold’s writing, I have noticed how cell phones have altered the social norms of my peers and myself. Once, now a very long time ago, when plans were made to meet for a movie, or go to lunch or anything in-between, we had to specifically state when and where we would meet. We were held to that, and anyone who did not show up was held responsible for themselves. Now-a-days, it is no longer a “Let’s meet at the old oak tree at 4pm,” but rather a “Call you when I’m nearly there.” In my own life this has lead to people becoming less punctual and less reliable. Something about having the ability to cancel (via phone) makes many people more likely to do so. In the past they would have shown up, because they gave their word and didn’t want to face the mockery if they ditched out. But now, a simple text relieves them of all that, and they are free to go as they please. Another issue phones have had in my life is the ever-present connection. I can always be reached. This puts stress on me because I hate disregarding someone’s phone call (even though some of my friends do it regularly). Even if I am busy, I try my best to answer when someone tries to reach me. This is both a good and bad thing. It has been awkward at times, forcing me to step outside to take a call. At other times, I do not get the peace and privacy I want, when I am always just 7 digits away.